What does "exceptional" mean? When can something be defined as "exceptional"? When it corresponds adequately to the heart's original exceptions, however confused and hazy one's awareness of it may be. Exceptional is, paradoxically, when what is most "natural" for us appears. And what is "natural" for us? That what we desire should come true. For nothing is more natural than the satisfaction of the ultimate and profound desire of our heart, nothing is more natural than the answer to the needs that lie at the root of our being, those needs for which we actually live and move. Our heart has an ultimate, imperious, deep-set need for fulfillment, for truth, beauty, goodness, love, final certitude, and happiness. So to come across an answer to these needs should be the most obvious and normal thing. Yet, on the contrary, this correspondence which should be supremely normal, becomes supremely exceptional for us. To come face to face with something absolutely and profoundly natural, that is to say, something that corresponds to the needs of the heart that nature gives us, is therefore something absolutely exceptional. There is, as it were, a strange condition: what normally happens is never truly exceptional, because it does not respond adequately to the needs of our heart.
--Luigi Giussani
Generating Traces in the History of the World